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Couple meets through dating site reserved exclusively for farmers
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Morgan (L) and Nate (R) Kliebenstein of Darlington met in 2010 through FarmersOnly.com, a dating site for farmers and country minded people. -Photo by Tallitha Reese

Morgan Welper didn’t join FarmersOnly.com thinking that she would find the love of her life and future husband. She thought it would be a fun way to meet people and maybe date a little bit. Instead she found Nate Kliebenstein, a young farmer from Darlington who became her husband and the father of her child.
    Morgan grew up on her parents’ farm in Waukon, Iowa, and went off to Iowa State University where she got a degree in dairy science. Eventually work took her to Ithaca, NY, where she first joined the site after a friend showed it to her. Morgan put up a profile and photo, but didn’t have much luck or time and eventually took her profile down. But then, when she moved to Shawano, Wis. for work, she decided to give the site another try and reactivated her profile.
    Meanwhile Nate was growing up on a dairy farm between Truman and Darlington. He earned a degree in political science from UW-Platteville and had plans to go to law school, but when his dad sold the cows during his senior year of college, he decided to buy the farm from his parents and work on building it back up.  For the next several years, all of his time, energy and focus went into working on the farm, so much so that he didn’t have time for going out and dating and his mother eventually suggested he join FarmersOnly.com in order to meet someone.
    After both individuals had been on the site for a few months Nate was drawn to Morgan’s profile by her photo, which was of her hugging a dairy heifer she had shown in college. He decided to message her. It was March of 2010.
    Morgan checked out Nate’s profile after receiving his message. “I was very pleased with what I saw,” she said. “Shortly after that I made messaging him my main priority on the site.” Morgan, who didn’t have internet service at her home at the time, would drive to the local Super 8 and sit in the parking lot to use their wifi.
The two continued messaging each other for about a week and a half and then started with the phone calls, which happened about every other day and lasted for up to two and a half hours at a time.
    Soon they were ready to meet in person. They decided that Morgan would stop by Nate’s farm on a Saturday when she went home to Iowa for the weekend.
    Morgan and Nate met for the first time in person in the driveway of his farm outside of Darlington where they shook hands and Morgan changed into her boots and got a tour of the farm.
    When Nate’s friends found out that Morgan was coming to visit for the first time, they took pity on him and a major, several day cleaning took place at the house.
    “It was like I moved in myself that day,” said Nate, who had previously been mostly living in the basement of the house, where there was a small living space, bathroom and a microwave. “I had everything I needed,” he said laughing.
    After the tour of the farm, their first date consisted of the typical dinner and a movie. Nate showed Morgan some of the sites in the area, including the big M on Mound Rd. Afterwards they went back to Nate’s place and played Wii.
    It was going well, but then Nate ended up getting food poisoning shortly after they returned. Nevertheless the date was considered a success and Nate ended up going to see Morgan in Shawano three weeks later.
    From there on out, Morgan started making the three and a half hour drive down to see Nate every other weekend.
    “As things got more serious, it was harder and harder during the times we were apart,” said Morgan.  “We were both miserable.” Soon the every other weekend trips turned into an every weekend thing.
    At first Morgan avoided telling her family that she was developing a relationship with someone she had met over the internet, as she didn’t want her family to mistrust Nate because of that.
“Initially, I was slightly ashamed that I had to resort to finding someone using the internet. I thought that meant that I wasn’t special enough or interesting enough to meet anyone in the ‘organic’ sense. But now I’m really happy.” said Morgan.
    Things continued to develop and Morgan and Nate got to know each other more and more, mostly on Nate’s farm, since that demanded most of his time. But luckily, Morgan didn’t have a problem with that.
    “There’s no going back,” said Nate of making the decision to start farming. “Once you’ve made that choice, you have to find someone to accept that.” And find that someone he did, in Morgan.
    Eventually, they developed a routine. Morgan would show up for the weekend with groceries and beer—as Nate rarely had much in his fridge, unload her stuff, change her clothes and head out to the barn to help milk. And that’s typically how they would spend the weekend—doing chores and just hanging out.
    In November of 2011 Nate proposed and Morgan said yes. They were married in a hayfield at the farm belonging to Morgan’s parents in September of 2012.
    Then almost exactly a year later, on Sept. 23, 2013, the couple’s daughter Evelyn Kay Kliebenstein was born. “Now it’s just about work and her,” said Nate.
    “It still kind of blows my mind,” said Morgan, of what a simple profile on FarmersOnly.com led to.
“I’m really happy we both did it,” said Morgan. “I feel like I would be married to a used car salesman and be living in town and be somewhat unhappy, and not have this much of a fulfilling lifestyle as I do now.”
    Extraordinarily enough, Nate and Morgan came very close to meeting years before they connected online.
    Morgan was interning with Genex, the company she currently works for, in the summer of 2008 and was actually just minutes away, breeding cows on other farms in the area. But looking back, Morgan thinks that at the time, it wouldn’t have worked for them.
    “I think God had a plan. It wouldn’t have worked out very well at that point in time because Nate was still in full expansion mode. He wouldn’t have had time for a girlfriend at that point,” said Morgan. “We were two people at completely different points in our lives and not ready to meet each other yet.”
    But after a few years, life decided that they were ready to meet and two people living hours apart connected on FarmersOnly.com, developed a relationship and ended up getting married and having a child.
    The Kliebenstein’s success story from FarmersOnly.com has led to significant interest in their tale. In fact, CBS recently traveled out to their farm to interview the couple and get some material for a short segment. The couple hasn’t received word yet on an air date. They’ve also talked to the FarmersOnly site itself regarding a promotion about the success of the site.

Independent-Scout, 2024 Year in Review
January through July
2024 Year in Review

JANUARY

Historic low flows turned the Mississippi River into a construction area in 2023, as the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers dredged huge quantities of sand to keep the channel open for barge traffic. Massive machines like the Dredge Goetz, a 225-foot-long vessel with a suction pipe nearly two feet wide, were moving through the river constantly to keep it clear… A Connect Communities proposal to apply for a grant to study constructing a pavilion over the current plaza area, located east of the Gays Mills Mercantile Center, was presented to the board by Martha Querin-Schultz. Querin-Schultz explained the proposal for a Mercantile-pavilion area came out of discussions last year, where dreams and projects were discussed among members of the group. She noted that Connect Communities was recognized by the Wisconsin development Corporation… Wisconsin Department of Natural Resources (WDNR) and Wisconsin Emergency Management (WEM) staff attended a meeting in Viroqua on Thursday, Jan. 11, to update local zoning and emergency management staff about the project to re-map the Kickapoo River Watershed floodplain. The reaches of the river to be re-mapped are from Ontario to Wauzeka… New owners and residents of Gays Mills, Arthur and Sarah Winsor with their children, Austin and Vayla, took ownership of Strang’s Plumbing, Heating, and Electric on the company’s 120th year. In 1904, Strang’s got its start in Richland County, and now 120 years later, Strang’s has found new ownership. Arthur and Sarah Winsor, residents of Gays Mills have taken on the century old company with plans to keep the same locally friendly service while improving on the latest in home mechanicals.

 

 

 

FEBRUARY

Multiple charges have been levied against a 37-year-old man for a physical altercation that took place on Dec. 9, 2023 at the Boondocks Sports Bar and Grill in Wauzeka. James Scherer, Wauzeka, has been charged with Disorderly Conduct and Physical Abuse of an Elderly Person-Intentionally Causing Bodily Harm, after he engaged in two fights on the bar’s property… In the Seneca Area School District, five candidates have registered to run for two open board seats. One of those running is incumbent Charles Clark. The other incumbent, Tyler Aspenson, decided to not run again. The other four candidates running are Eric Grimsled, Jennifer Aspenson, Kyle Berger and Sara Wall. Only Grimsled has run for the board previously. Because five candidates are running for two open seats, a primary election must be held on Tuesday, February 20, only the top four voter getters will appear on the spring ballot… North Crawford Playhouse is thrilled to present William Shakespeare’s timeless comedy, ‘Much Ado About Nothing.’ With plenty of humor, a good dose of romance, and a hefty portion of mischief, this delightful production will leave audiences feeling happy and uplifted… Quick reaction by the Gays Mills Fire Department may have prevented more massive damage from a fire at an apartment building located on Watermelon Way early Monday morning. At approximately 3 a.m., Gays Mills Fire Chief Earl Winsor and firefighter Adam McCarn arrived at the scene of the fire at 205 Watermelon Way, the residence of Sarah Boardman… Did you receive an ‘Emergency Call’ at 3:33 p.m. on Sunday? We did. The recorded voice of a Crawford County 911 Dispatcher told us the Black Hawk Bridge over the Mississippi River at Lansing, Iowa would be closed to traffic shortly because of safety concerns.

 

MARCH

Crawford County Health and Human Services and the Driftless Region Mental Health Coalition have partnered with ‘CredibleMind’ to provide residents with a digital health and well-being platform… The platform, available free of charge, offers confidential and anonymous access 24/7, allows users to explore, understand, and enhance their mental health… There’s good news for those that have had their lives turned upside down by the closure of the Lansing Bridge. Plans are moving ahead to begin to provide a water taxi service over the navigation channel, running from Lansing to the Will Dilg Boat Landing on the Lansing Dike… It was another good year for the Crawford County Independent & Kickapoo Scout at the annual newspaper awards banquet in Madison. The Independent-Scout won 16 awards in the Wisconsin Newspaper Association ‘Better Newspaper Contest.’ “It’s always nice to have your work recognized by your peers,” Independent-Scout editor Charley Preusser said. “However, the real judges are the people reading our paper every week.”… At their March 12 meeting, members of the Crawford County Land Conservation Committee tackled a variety of issues. Ongoing efforts to bring county septic systems into compliance with state law were discussed, as well as potential changes to county ordinances, a well water quality and geology study, and a tire clean up event… The North Crawford School Board reveled in the success of the district’s winter athletic teams at their meeting on March 20. The boys basketball team tied for first place in the Ridge & Valley Conference, the North Crawford-Seneca Wrestling co-op team sent two girls and one boy to the state tournament, and the girls basketball team enjoyed a successful year building for the future.

 

APRIL

After record-setting high temperatures experienced in the winter of 2023-24, and ongoing drought conditions, local farmers are facing a variety of challenges as the growing season approaches. Those challenges include planting decisions and forage production issues, as well as the timing and selection of inputs. The National Weather Service La Crosse recently reported that from April 1, 2023, through March 26, 2024, precipitation departures range from near-normal to 11 inches below normal north of Interstate 90, and from eight to just over 20 inches below normal across the remainder of the area to the south of I-90… A local contractor, Tug Sprosty, was awarded the contract to build the ag projects shed for the Seneca Area School District at the board meeting held Monday, March 18. Sprosty’s bid of $32,000 was significantly lower than Clary Building’s bid of $44,200, and some other local bids around $43,000. There was some concern that the bids were for constructing the same structure to requirements as laid out… Ever wonder who to turn to if you find an injured or ailing raptor? Wonder no more. Dr. Laura Johnson, Doctor of Veterinary Medicine has the answers for you. Dr. Johnson works part-time for Tender Care Animal Hospital in Prairie du Chien. This leaves her plenty of time for her other practice – raptor rescue. “I’m the only vet in the tri-state area that specializes in and sees birds as patients,” Johnson told the Independent-Scout… Iowa DOT has some great news when it comes to repairing the existing Blackhawk Bridge at Lansing. The two new piers are done, and all four bridge deck spans are back in place. “In February and March, we removed four sections of the bridge deck in order to repair the damaged piers,” Iowa DOT’s Clayton Burke told a group assembled for a ‘Bridge Update’ at the Meehan Memorial Library in Lansing on April 10… When the Prairie du Chien Area Arts Center hosted a Wisconsin Conservation Congress (WCC) Hearing on the evening of April 8, Patrick Short, a Wisconsin Department of Natural Resources (WDNR) fisheries biologist, presented reports on wildlife disease, water contaminants and budget deficits to the public.

 

MAY

The time is approaching for the La Crosse, Monroe and Vernon county boards to make a final decision about the USDA-NRCS proposal to decommission flood control dams in the West Fork Kickapoo and Coon Creek watersheds. It is anticipated that the Land Conservation Committees in each county will make a recommendation to their county boards in May, and then each of the three Boards of Supervisors will vote on the proposal at their June meetings… Last week, a coalition of environmental groups, The Iowa Environmental Coalition (IEC), filed a petition with the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency, alleging the state isn’t doing enough to protect drinking water supplies from nitrate pollution. The group states the problem is particularly severe in the northeast region of the state, with its underlying karst geology. The carbonate bedrock typical in regions with karst geology is cracked and fissured limestone or sandstone that quickly conducts contaminants from the surface into the aquifers below…  Get ready for an evening of dazzling performances and toe tapping tunes as the North Crawford Playhouse presents their latest production. Aptly titled ‘One Night Only,’ the showcase will run for just one performance on Wednesday, May 22. The show will feature a dynamic lineup of songs from a variety of beloved musicals, exhibiting the talents of the North Crawford performing arts students. From classic Broadway hits to contemporary favorites, there’s something for all ages in this exciting performance… The Seneca Area School District announced the Seneca High School Valedictorian is Kylie Stluka and the Salutatorian is Nadia Jo Klema… After a dry year in 2024, with welcome rains once again falling in our area, it seems timely for our communities to think about the possibility of flooding. During times of flooding, local citizens have identified reliable sources of information that can help them in planning for and responding to flooding events, especially those available from the National Weather Service… North Crawford High School’s Class of 2024 Valedictorian is Sarah Bransky and the 2024 North Crawford Salutatorian is Nathan Zirk… Crawford County has been selected to host the 78th Alice in Dairyland Finals in May 2025. An announcement will be made by Carol Roth and Stephanie Binversie, Alice in Dairyland Finals Co-Chairs, along with Ashley Hagenow, the reigning Alice in Dairyland, at the Crawford County Dairy Breakfast on Saturday, June 1, at 8 a.m. The Dairy Breakfast will take place at the Crawford County Fairgrounds this year, with breakfast served from 6 to 10 a.m.

 

JUNE

After a brief discussion at their meeting on Monday, May 20, the Seneca School Board approved open enrollment for 10 students coming into the district and denied the open enrollment applications of two others seeking to come into the district.  The board also approved ‘outbound’ open enrollment applications for five other students seeking to enroll in other districts… About 15 members of the Ferryville, Soldiers Grove, and Gays Mills fire departments and emergency rescue teams gathered on Saturday, June 8, for a Grain Bin Rescue Training. The training had a classroom component in the morning, and then an operations training after that. Instruction was provided by Karl Sandry, Southwest Technical College Lead Fire Instructor, and conducted at the site of grain bins owned by Swede Knutson… The Soldiers Grove Village Board heard a presentation from and voted to retain the services of Nikki Swayne of Abt Swayne Law in Westby as their new village attorney. At the board’s June 11 meeting, Swayne introduced herself and discussed the terms of the contract she proposed. The village was previously represented by Attorney Eileen Brownlee, who has retired… The Gays Mills Swimming Pool is back and in full swing this summer. An average of 40 to 60 children flock to the outdoor pool each day to escape the June heat. In addition to its recreational facilities, the pool offers swimming lessons throughout the summer.